So, you're interested in trying out anal sex. Good for you! Anal can be extremely pleasurable for everyone, and can help take your sex life to the next level.
While it might seem daunting at first, anal sex is great for a range of reasons, and you'll quickly discover why! Not only does it feel good, but it can result in orgasm due to concentration of nerve endings in the area. This means the anus is incredibly sensitive, but when done right, it will feel ah-mazing. With little effort, too - what more is there to love?!
There is a common misconception that anal is painful, which definitely shouldn't be true - if you're doing things right, that is! Starting out slow with anal sex is very important, especially if it's your first time. If you experience any pain or discomfort, take things down a notch or stop altogether and try again later. Using lubricant is absolutely essential when participating in any type of anal play. This is because the anus is not self-lubricating, and if you try stick anything in there without any moisture, it's probably going to be a little bit uncomfortable. Not to mention that lack of lube can result in tearing, so you want to avoid that at all costs!
If you're planning on experimenting with toys as well as fingers and other body parts, you'll want to invest in a water-based lubricant. Water-based lubes are compatible with sex toys, unlike some other lubes that break down the material of sex toys.
You'll also want to use a thicker lube - the anus is delicate, so a bit of extra 'cushioning' will make a huge difference. Many lubes are formulated specifically for anal play, so these will definitely be your best bet. Want some specific recommendations? ATMS has a huge range of lubes that are perfect for anal! Here are some of our favourites...
The Moist Anal Lubricant is a customer favourite, made with a friction-free, non-irritating and silky smooth formula that will feel good all over. With a thicker and longer lasting formula compared to many other lubes, Moist is perfect for any type of anal play. Apply liberally and enjoy!
The JO Anal H20 is the same as the JO H20 that we know and love, but with an extra thick, high viscosity formula. Made using the highest quality pharmaceutical grade ingredients on the market, you know you're in good hands with this slippery lube. Water-based lubes are also 100% latex free, so you can use them with condoms without a worry!
The Wet Stuff Gold lube isn't specifically for anal play, however it's one of the most popular lubes on the market, and is definitely multi-purpose! With a slightly warming sensation to the touch, and super silky texture, this lubricant has a long-lasting formula to ensure you don't have to keep applying it.
Should I use a numbing or desensitising lube?
There are also a range of numbing and desensitising lubricants that are made for anal sex. The idea is that they will provide a slight numbing sensation to make anal a little bit easier - however, these lubes need to be used with caution! If your anus is numb, then you won't be able to tell if something doesn't feel right, which can result in pain and discomfort once the numbing wears off. It's important not to use too much! If you're worried about your first time being painful, then start out small - for example, with your fingers. This way you can work your way up with a normal lube to help out.
If you do want to use one of these numbing lubes, make sure you start off with just a little bit so you can still feel something. As you get more comfortable and are more aware of your limits, you can use a bit more - but always, always be careful and never too rough!
There are also a range of sex toys that can help you in your anal adventures! Sex toys can be a great way to start out if you're indulging in some solo play, and can help you find exactly what sensations you enjoy.
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