Lubricant

An allergic reaction during sex can be super frustrating and obviously a bedroom buzzkill. So it's important to identify what exactly is causing the reaction and what sort of reaction your experiencing. Firstly, remember that you can't be allergic to the experience of sex itself! A very depressing conclusion that some may jump to. Solving an allergy usually either involves finding a product with alternative ingredients or simply removing something from sex.

The other possibility is that pain or discomfort during sex could be the sign of a sexually transmitted disease (STD) or an annoying yeast infection. If you have a hunch that this could be the case, then visit your doctor right away to hopefully rule this out!

Even if you are only recognising very slight pain or a slight itching sensation, it's still worth investigating further. Many allergies will actually build up and become worse over time.

Pain or itching during protected sex

Although a latex allergy is the most common case, you could be allergic to a lubricant within a condom. This will usually be a reaction from a certain ingredient within a condom. Ask yourself whether you've used different condoms in the past that worked fine. It may prove difficult to pinpoint exactly what is causing the reaction without the help of a professional. Alternatively, during the meantime your best bet will be to try some non-latex, natural or water-based condoms.

If you've been covering your sex toy in a condom, then there's another possibility your allergy is coming from the sex toy. This will usually be from the plastic that surrounds older sex toys. Many sex toys now use premium grade silicone to ensure body safety. This material is further popular because it is so popular to use.

Burning sensation

Planning on burning some sexual midnight oil but you're literally feeling some unwanted burning with things. People may describe a burning sensation in many ways, but if the use of a condom or lubricant causes any itching, irritation, redness, strange tingling or swelling than stop using that product immediately and look for an alternative. Try to avoid lubricants containing glycerin and glycerol!

Additional sensation lubricants providing additional problems?

Many couples turn to additional sensation lubricant as a comfortable way of incorporating new sensations in the bedroom. However, the extra warming or cooling effects are only possible by including alcohol or glycol. If you've just incorporated a new lube into your life and are experiencing some unwanted tingling or pain, then either return to a standard lubricant. Other ways to spice things can be through trying some organic,vegan or flavoured lube!

Experiencing vaginal drought

So you've been applying lotions or lubricants to make things more wet, so it might seem strange the opposite is occuring. Always read the ingredients to avoid any unwanted irritation down there! Glycerin and alcohols are common culprits in producing vaginal dryness. Although there are plenty of other reasons you may be a bit dry down there, this may be a by product of a form of medication, a different health issue or maybe your partner just needs to up their foreplay game!

Your lubricant contains tree nuts

Lubricants are also created for those who are purchase conscious or prefer to keep things as natural as possible. This is referring to organic or vegan lubricant. Unfortunately these products have also meant new allergies have now been felt within the bedroom. The positive thing is that these allergies are rather common and you will probably know right away what the problem is from experiencing a previous reaction during eating. Common examples are either coconut or almond oil. Organic lubricants have plenty of variety, so look for one with other substitute ingredients.

That dairy allergy is even affecting your sex life...

Casein is a major ingredient in cheese and is lightly featured in some condoms and lubricants. This is an uncommon reaction, but is still worth considering. Most people who have a dairy allergy are very aware of dairy ingredients. So be cautious and check the ingredients of any condom or lubricant you're interested in.

Remember

If you investigate any of these tips and find that you are still experiencing any unwanted reactions, see a doctor as soon as possible. Seeing a doctor is basically recommended whether you are confident on solving the problem or not. This is the quickest method to returning back to a satisfying sex life!

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Oil based are a pretty underrated form of lubricant and aren't discussed very much compared to water-based or silicone lube. This is mainly because other lubricants are recommended to use with sex toys. Even though oil-based can be used with sex toys, it is better for creating some incredibly personal and intimate moments with yourself or within a relationship.

Oil based lubricants such as this Elbow Grease Original are thicker than your average lubricant, but still luxuriously silky.

Not needing to use a condom

Firstly, oil-based lubed are not compatible with latex condoms, or anything that's latex. Basically the ingredients react badly and either make the condom porous, meaning that the condom can harbour bacteria or cause the condom to completely break. They are safe however to use with less common polyurethane condoms! Otherwise ensure everyone has their sexual health in check, no pesky yeast infections or anything. Have alternative pregnancy preventers available, unless you're wanting to make a baby, burn that midnight oil!

Sex or a massage, why not both?

Oil based represents double pleasure. Either you can use it for sexy time, or a massage. Foreplay is so important, so begin with a loving massage to release some muscle tension whilst building some sexual tension! A dash of oil will greatly reduce the friction and will prove you don't need to be a masseuse to provide a relaxing massage. This is a big difference between water-based lubricant for example, water-based lubricant is usually a bit colder, cold lube for a massage, no thank you!

Planning some marathon loving?

If you're planning a particularly long sensual session and either want to ensure everything stays well lubed or reapplying lube sounds like a buzzkill. Oil based lube is perfect because it is so long lasting.

Upgrading a hand job

Treating your man to a handy? A happy ending after a massage? Remember oil based lube goes a long way. Quickly squirting some lubricant onto your hands may not just be an exciting surprise but will feel amazing. Even though a handjob is typically associated with men, woman will enjoy a helping hand as well! Lubricant can help reduce over stimulation during early stages of clitoral contact. Further, it can double as protection for intimate tissue.

Prepared for extra cleaning

Be prepare for the potential of a bit more cleaning than usual. Generally oil based lubricant is known as a lube that may require some extra cleaning compared to water-based or silicone lubricant. However, new oil-based lubricants such as Boy Butter Fresca only require some water to wash off.

So be intelligent about your intimate moments, unlike other lubricants where you should be extra generous to ensure safety! Oil-based is the gift that keeps on giving, so a little bit is probably fine, especially if only using it for a handjob or massage. If any sheet staining occurs, don't throw your sheets in the dryer! Lubricant stains are similar to grease stains. Therefore, some dishwashing soap or anything that cuts grease will do.

Wanting a natural feel

Oil based lube isn't as pure as organic or water-water based lube. But will feel more legitimate than silicone. Some couples whose lube drawer is abundant like to mix some water-based lube in to create a more natural feel.

For the best water-based lubricants read - 5 of the Best Water-based Lubricants

Remember

Unlike other sex toys or arousing additions. Lubricant can be a welcome surprise, especially if you're about to receive a massage. Discussion around it's inclusion doesn't need to be so clear, but knowing it's on the cards is good practice.

If you experience any burning, itching, redness or pain after coming in contact with lubricant. Then stop play immediately! It's very possible that you are allergic to a certain ingredient within the product. This doesn't mean your lubing days are over. Once you've identified the specific ingredient, begin the search for an alternative lubricant and have another go.

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