How to achieve a mind-blowing anal orgasm
Unbeknownst to most, there are many types of orgasms that one can achieve, and we are all capable of experiencing these in a variety of ways. While it's largely argued how many orgasms there actually are, many experts believe there are somewhere between 8 and 12 different types of orgasms. Yup, you heard right! That's a whole lot of sexual exploration and we're totally here for it.
One type of orgasm is the anal orgasm. While anal in all of its forms continues to be a hot topic in the world of sex, some people are still not open to the idea. And, we get it, the idea can be a little overwhelming at first. But once you open yourself up to it, you'll find yourself entering a whole new world of pleasure, and your mind-blowing anal orgasm will be waiting for you just around the corner!
If you're stuck on where to begin, don't stress. Here are some pro-tips on how to get yourself over that edge!
Practice makes perfect
It's important not to jump in the deep end right away. The key to achieving an anal orgasm is to start off alone, take it slow, and figure out what gets you going! This will help avoid any discomfort and pain, which might be apparent at first. Plus, without the complication of another partner in the mix, you’ll actually be able to figure out what you like, sans pressure.
Whether you plan on introducing another partner or sex toy at some point or not, it's important to make sure it's just you initially. That way you can understand your limits so when the time comes for a helping hand, you know exactly what to do.
First things first: you'll need a lot of lube. The anus isn't self-lubricating, and you'll definitely want to ensure everything slides right in to help avoid discomfort and overall make your experience more enjoyable! Luckily, there are a range of lubes made specifically with your rear-end in mind.
The Moist Anal Lube is a best-seller, with a friction-free, non-irritating and silky smooth formula there to guide you through your anal ventures. This lube is water-based, and if you apply a liberal amount, it will build up into a thicker lubricant – which is exactly what you want for anal play! A thick formula will provide an extra layer to keep everything safe and will last longer, so you don't have to re-apply as much.
A silicone lube such as System JO Anal Lubricant is also the perfect pick for anal. Silicone lubes are known to last longer, and have a thicker, high viscosity formula. Basically, this means you won't be re-applying lube as often, so you've got more time to focus on the good stuff! Silicone lubes tend to have a slightly higher price point, but for extra time they last, it's worth every cent.
You'll want to be careful with some desensitising and numbing lubes. While these can be beneficial, they can cause irritation if used too much, or if the ingredients are completely body safe.
Often people associate anal penetration with pain, and overlook the pleasure it can bring. This can be seriously damaging and can impact how your experience ends up! The best way to go into it is with an open and accepting mind. Try to avoid the idea of pain and discomfort, and give yourself plenty of time to ease into it!
If you're feeling particularly stressed out, it's a good idea to do something calming beforehand, like taking a bath or shower. This can help relax your muscles and ease your mind.
It's a good idea to have a play around with your fingers first, before jumping into anything else. Start out massaging around the anus – for some people this can even be enough to get things going! Play around with different rhythms and, when you're ready, you can start by penetrating with a finger. Play around with different amounts of pressure and different motions - trust me, you'll figure it out! The key to succeeding in achieving an anal orgasm, is playing around and trying new things until it feels good!
Once you've experimented and are feeling more comfortable, anal sex toys can be extremely pleasurable and a fun way to enhance your anal escapades!
If you want to work your way up in a more efficient and measurable way, an anal training kit is definitely the way to go. This set includes three anal plugs of varying sizes, meaning you can ease yourself into it and you don't have to commit to just one size. Again, ensure you have plenty of lube and the world is your oyster!
Want some bling for your butt? The Diogol Anni Butt Plug is a touch of luxury, made out of aluminium with a beautiful Swarovski crystal. This plug is still relatively small, so isn't out of the question for beginners!
If you decide to introduce another partner, just ensure you keep things safe and comfortable at all times for your safety. Set limits and understand what each other are willing to do, and aren’t willing to do, so everything is crystal clear.
The big "O"
Not all orgasms are created equal, and everyone will have a slightly different experience with anal orgasms, too. You might find it hard to orgasm from anal stimulation alone, so you might want to employ a double penetration dildo for a bit of extra excitement, or find other ways to stimulate yourself. At the end of the day, everyone's a winner with sexual exploration, so take a deep breath, relax, and enjoy yourself!