Ever wondered what it's like riding a sex toy? Our mate Jed reviews the Fantasy for Her Remote Silicone Please-Her.

Oh. My. Gosh. Is the first thing that comes to mind when wanting to talk about this toy.

In all honesty this isn’t the kind of toy that I’d usually pick out for myself, but after being gifted to me this holiday season, I’ll most definitely be looking further into similar types of products in the future.

I firstly want to ask if I’m the only person that gets unnecessarily excited about soft silicone toys? I’m like a moth to a flame and the texture alone is enough to have me running towards the bedroom!

This toy is fantastic for anyone regardless of how experienced you are with sex toys. If you’re a cautious beginner you'll enjoy exploring the tantalizing clitoral stimulation. And you'll also love it if you’re looking to give your partner the reigns as you sit back and experience all this toy has to offer.

The controls are really easy to use, whether you’re manning it yourself or have a partner controlling your experience. The shape of the toy is different to anything I’ve used in the past. It almost reminded me of a tiny saddle which I found to be quite amusing.

It’s shaped in a way that helps to fit perfectly into your underwear for some out in public teasing.

Without a doubt I’ve found that positioning this toy so that you’re sitting on-top of it is the way to go. Really play into the ‘tiny saddle’ and give it a ride!

An amazing added bonus with this vibrator, is that it’s one of the most quiet sex toys I’ve ever used. Being crammed into a flat with three other people can sometimes hinder the use of some louder vibrating toys; but in this respect, this toy is my new best friend.

It's waterproof and made with silicone making it really easy to clean. Personally I just prefer the old fashioned hand wash in warm soapy water, as I’m sure my flatties would probably not appreciate me using our dishwasher to clean my used toys.

Being so smooth, and not having any hidden ridges or curved edges helps to make the clean-up process a lot less tedious than some of my other toys.

This toy has been my go-to over the holiday period; not just to use by myself, but also with my partner. I don’t see myself throwing this one aside anytime soon, but I am intrigued to try out some similar toys which I wouldn’t usually gravitate towards.

Having the term ‘For her’ or ‘Please her’ is a common thing to see when shopping for toys as a trans guy and can leave me feeling a tad dysphoric.

I’ve arrived at a point now where although I'm aware that most sex toys are ‘gendered’, I just focus in on the toys that I know are going to make me feel really good, regards of who they’re marketed towards.

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