Introducing sex toys into a relationship can be potentially difficult for anyone. We fear that our partner may be intimidated, uncomfortable, maybe even judgemental. If you've been a user of sex toys before your relationship, you'd probably like them to remain a part of your sex life. There’s no reason they should be put on pause because of a new partner!
Although once you push past any initial awkwardness, your likely to enter a new phase of excitement in your relationship that's sexually satisfying and enlightening for both of you. Here's 5 benefits you can expect from the introduction of your pleasurable pals.
1. Learning what feels best early on!
Maybe you've tried to teach your partner the motion you've mastered to get you off. Even though they’ve written a thesis on mimicking the motion, they just can't seem to get it down consistently. Sex toys, especially vibrators often remove the need for years of practice. Your partner only needs to learn how to use the toy. Once they're confident they can move onto incorporating themselves with the toy, this is toy dependant!
Experimenting with toys means that your partner will discover what feels best for you earlier in the relationship. When you both settle into your relationship, the sex will still be amazing and of course, if you've tried a bunch of sex toys, there will never be a boring night. In short, introducing sex toys means better sex and more orgasms!
2. Improved sexual communication
Introducing sex toys requires trust. Both partners have suddenly become accustomed to a new form, potentially more intense pleasure. This accompanies with it a greater need to communicate verbally and pay closer attention to each others body movement. Often, it can be a case of something feeling too good, causing a sensory overload that one partner can't bare. Discussing what feels good or bad leads to a more sexually satisfying relationship.
If you're introducing bondage play into your relationship, communication is even more prevalent. Whoever takes the role of the submissive is going to feel vulnerable and there is little room to joke around. Even if it's a fluffy pair of handcuffs, the feeling of not being able to escape can quickly encourage panic. Navigating bondage play correctly by constantly communicating will make your relationship more tight knit than ever. Checking that they're comfortable physically and mentally establishes new levels of care and intimacy into the bedroom.
3. Encourages sex positive discussion
Enjoying sex toys often means that your delving into new fantasies or taboos. Being able to talk about each others sexuality free of judgement is a great way of feeling comfortable in a relationship. This doesn't mean that you should be delving into each others darkest fantasies trying to break taboos. When it comes to sex, staying with what you're comfortable with is absolutely fine! Sex positivity in a new relationship may simply mean you can speak openly about sex when you go out for a coffee, look at sex toys online or speak freely with other couples. Socially, you will feel more comfortable with each other and the many different social settings you may explore together.
Important things to remember
It's important to acknowledge the anxiety that introducing sex toys might encourage. If you open up your "secret drawer" to reveal an entire selection of adult toys, it's understandable they may be a bit anxious. Especially if they've never experimented with sex toys before. This is important to find out before the first reveal!
Adulttoymegastore is an online adult shop that values the privacy of your relationship! Orders are shipped in discreet plain packaging, There's no need to worry about receiving your toy before receiving all the benefits it will provide! If you have any queries about how you will receive your sex toy(s) just contact our customer service team. Whenever purchasing a sex toy, let your partner know. Better to talk beforehand than have it turn up unexpectedly, raising a bunch of uneasy questions!