Why are lesbians having better sex?
The general answer is pretty straight forward. Women know what women like, in turns of what feels good. We're not just talking about the movements and motions used to reach clitoral orgasm, but the studies also reflect women's ability to listen and respond to sexual needs.
A recent study involving 53,000 Americans by the Kinsey Institute showed that lesbians had an orgasm 86% of the time during sex, opposed to 65% for straight women. Whilst, a similar study in 2014 by the Journal of Sexual Medicine discovered that lesbians orgasmed 75% of the time during sex, compared with 61% for straight women. In other words, it seems the orgasm gap is getting bigger!
One reason for this gap is pornographic content targeted at straight men as well as the accompanying consumption. Even lesbian porn is targeted at straight men, explaining new content categories that are female friendly. Most pornographic content focuses solely on penetration and ignores other factors that help tip women over the edge.
"Having sex with another woman, it's a completely mind-bending experience. The mix of care, love, romance, pleasure, emotion and intensity is something that I never experienced with men."
Another advantage that lesbian women have over men is their biological advantage. Women can orgasm multiple times, whilst men must go through a refractory period before they're able to go again. With the most orgasms recorded for a woman in one hour being 134 and 16 for a man, it makes it a little sad that heterosexual women are reporting unsatisfying sex lives.
What needs to change?
Thankfully, fixing sexual problems is a lot of fun! Sex educator Carlin Ross recommends engaging your mind in sexual fantasies, listening to erotica pod casts and sex toys!
On the other hand or mouth the Kinsey Institute recommends more oral sex and "sexy talk." Communicating specificities and being open to try new positions amongst other things was important for those experiencing an orgasm drought.
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Best of luck to all couples out there. To all the lesbians setting the bar high, keep on keeping on!