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How couples are saving their relationships using double penetration dildos

By Orin Ruaine-Prattley 2 months ago. Posted in Relationship Advice
How couples are saving their relationships using double penetration dildos

Before getting into things. This article is not to do with double penetration as in two things in the same hole. Here we're mostly referring to simultaneous vaginal and anal sex. If you're looking for complete self fulfillment in one hole, see 'An Introduction to Huge Dildos.'

Everyone has fantasised or at least thought about having a threesome in their life. However, if you're in a committed relationship, then this is probably off the cards. Every relationship differs for how important satisfying desires are. Remember there is a difference between a fantasy and a real sexual want. A fantasy is something that you like the idea of but it isn't necessarily something you want to happen. When fantasising about a threesome, you enjoy the idea but the reality of the negative effects it might have on your relationship keeps it a fantasy and nothing more. Like most pleasurable problems, there is a sensual solution, double penetration dildos!

What are double penetration dildos?

The name is pretty explanatory, they're toys made to enter two orifices simultaneously. However there are variations in these toys that are important to consider.

The first and most popular are those that are attached like cock rings. This is an awesome option for partners who want to keep each other physically involved as much as possible. As the cock ring ensures he is still the main event. Cock ring double penetrators are so popular because it allows him to control the speed and intensity of each thrust. This ensures safety when engaging in anal play and the ability to check whether any lubricant needs to be reapplied.

Then there are double penetrators that can be used solo or with a partner. These are like two realistic dildos stuck together, therefore the difference is that your partner will no longer be directly involved. This is completely fine! What's intimate about using sex toys is being accommodating to your partners desires. Dildos with a suction cup feature can even mimic a foursome. If placed on the wall correctly, he can receive oral whilst she straddles the dildo. Alternatively just use a single phallus suction cup dildo.

Double ended dildos can be bent to mimic dildos above, but are typically enjoyed by lesbian couples. Unlike the aforementioned dildos, double ended dildos aren't used as a substitute for threesomes. Instead, they are a pleasurable substitute for wearing a dildo strap, as sharing penetration can be a lot more intimate.

Why would your partner want to experience double penetration?

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The first thing you need to acknowledge is that in no way does this desire derive from a lack in sexual performance. It doesn't have to do with anything about being unfaithful either. Double penetration is the same as any other desire, people are just curious about experiencing extra sensations, stronger orgasms. The difference being that, whenever another phallus is involved, the emotional stakes tend to raise a bit more. This is no different to wanting to incorporate a vibrator with penetration. Often, partners may only want to experience it once or every now and then. This won't take away from their want for regular vanilla sex.

What does double penetration feel like?

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Double penetration has been described in various ways. Although there are some common points stated by people who enjoyed it, people who were so-so and others who immediately knew it would only be a one time thing. The overwhelming theme is that if you know what vaginal sex and anal sex feels like, you basically already know what it feels like. Except, when two orifices are being penetrated at once, the feeling of intensity increases. Mentally, some woman describe the feeling as being bloated in an erogenous way. While one made an interesting metaphor, comparing herself to a cupcake being filled with two syringes. A metaphor that is only relatable to a select few and I'm not referring to bakers!

Remember

It's important to remember the reality behind the desire for double penetration in a relationship. Utilising toys is so recommended because the statistics behind partners who decide to have a threesome by introducing partners is not that successful. There are just so many variables to consider, are both of you attracted to third wheel, what if your partner seems to be enjoying the third wheel too much, what if the third wheel is enjoying your partner too much, what can and cannot happen, what will happen in the heat of the moment, do you want to know the person or not? Introducing a threesome into a relationship usually comes with a minefield of jealousy and that's why it shouldn't be mentioned lightly. Ask yourself whether this is truly what you want, is it just a passing want, are you potentially using it as an unhealthy ego boost?

Always use lubricant with any double penetration dildo. The more lubricant the safer things are. If playing with a dildo for awhile, lube may need to be reapplied after a period of time. Check the material of your toy, as silicone lube cannot be used with silicone toys, this will degrade the material! For additional sensation, silicone toys are suitable for temperature play.

Always discuss the use of a dildo with your partner before using it. Double penetration toys are considered quite advanced. These should never be introduced into the bedroom without any prior communication. Especially how comfortable partners are with the measurement of each toy, a small dildo is usually recommended for anal play.

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