The best way to improve your sex life is to talk to your partner. Communication is absolutely key when it comes to a healthy and happy sex life. But how do you do it? Here are some tips.

Have a chat

Sometimes it's that simple! Pour yourself a wine or a cup of tea and have an honest chat with each other. The first time might feel a bit strange but if you make it a habit then it will get easier every time.

Ask each other questions - start simply: What was it like when you masturbated for the first time? What was it like when you had sex for the first time? When was the first time you did something in bed that you really loved?

Game on

Why not try a game to break the ice? There are so many fun games to play that can turn into a good laugh or a way to open up the lines of communication. Play a sexy board game to start asking the questions you've always wanted to know the answer to. Why not try the I Never Have Game this asks you to share the things you have and haven't done! It's a heap of fun. You could also try a sex coupon book.

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Show and tell!

If you're too shy to speak, let your fingers do the talking. Take your lover's hand and show them where you want to be touched. Show them what feels good. Get them to watch you so they can see what you like. Watch them so you can see what they like.

Watch and learn

You could watch some porn together to see what you do and don't like. You can also watch how-to videos to see if you can learn a new skill together. If you're not comfortable watching porn you could read erotica to each other to see what turns you on and what doesn't.

Get educated

Read articles or guides to improve your sexual prowess. Some books like Becoming Cliterate have chapters specifically designed to teach readers all about the power of the clitoris.Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life explores why and how women’s sexuality works—based on groundbreaking research and brain science. You could also watch the Netflix series Sex Explained.

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