Why Every Man Needs A P-spot Anal Toy
What is the p-spot?
The p-spot is an erogenous zone that is located between the bladder and the rectum in men. Like the g-spot in women, the p-spot is jam-packed with nerve endings that men should be taking advantage of! Located approximately half a finger inside the anus (differs between each person, but thereabouts), the p-spot is about the size of a dandelion before you blow it and feels like a flattened plum.
Why would you want to stimulate your prostate?
A wise old sexually progressive man once said: "life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away." There are many benefits of p-spot stimulation, if you've ever felt a little jealous about the body writhing, sheet ripping, toe curling, wake up the entire flat orgasms of our female counterparts, here’s your chance to take one back. P-spot stimulation introduces more intense and new orgasms into a mans sex life that may just take your breath away.
More intense orgasms
P-spot orgasms allows one to reach orgasm without touching their penis. Although it can feel so good that you may still ejaculate, it won’t be the normal Christmas cracker experience you are used to. Men who have experience p-spot orgasms describe their orgasms as being a full body experience and sometimes being so powerful that they actually feel a little nervous before it happens.
A dry orgasm refers to achieving an orgasm without ejaculation. The great thing about having a dry orgasm is that it avoids the refractory phase after ejaculation (the recovery time needed before you can go again). Therefore, your erection is maintained, and you can still experience a normal wet orgasm in the same session or multiple orgasms through further p-spot stimulation.
Multiple male orgasms!?
Yes, this is possible! Dry orgasms are the key to multiple male orgasms. Although, don’t expect to be able to experience this straight away, it’ll take a bit of practice as you learn what movements and pressure works best for you. Patience is key here and sometimes there will be other factors that help us achieve multiple orgasms: the person we’re sharing the experience with or how much we are immersed in the moment. Whether it happens or not, enjoy the extra pleasure you’re receiving for the time being and keep your fingers crossed that your name is picked on the sex gods' wheel of fortune.
Other health benefits
P-spot massages even prevents prostate cancer! P-spot massage in general has one key benefit, increased blood flow! Increased blood flow provides many different benefits:
- Increased blood flow helps those who experience erectile dysfunction. Vausing the release of oxygen and nutrients that facilitate erection.
- Increased blood flow aids the production of seminal fluids, in shor, this aids fertility.
- Increased blood flow also flushes out bacteria which can relieve the symptoms of prostatis.
How to use a p-spot anal toy
First things first, lube! Lube is a must in any anal play, especially for newbies apply a generous amount to yourself and the toy. You will notice that the end of any p-spot toy will be angled or curve to hit your p-spot. This means inserting the toy so that the curved part of your toy is facing upwards. To avoid any confusion, it’s recommended that you practice using fingers first, this can be done by yourself or with a partner.
Before engaging in any backdoor play, it's also advised to do so after you've had a bowel movement. This will be followed by a thorough shower to make sure everything down there is clean. Then finally, after a shower is a good time to make sure you or your partners fingernails are trimmed and smooth.
P-Spot Anal Toys for beginners
P-spot anal toys differ by the design, material and their accompanying features. Below are 5 categories of p-spot toys for any beginners currently pondering in the back garden.
For beginners a wide handle is important so that you have full control over how much pressure one wants to provide and how deep one you want to go. Both the Classix Prostate Stimulator and Divine Touch are sure to make those introductory stages both comfortable and pleasurable.
Vibrating plugs offer extra stimulation, perfect to up the anti once we figure out the movements and pressure that please us the most. This Vibrating Perfect Plug is the exemplary size for beginners who’d like the option of vibration. Whilst, the Vibrating Curve pinpoints vibration on our favourite spot.
If your open minded or should I say open ended a Beginner's Fantasy Kit is effective in trying out the basic toys in anal play. Another option for those who want to keep mixing spices, His Prostate Training Kit paves the way to p-spot pleasure.
Why should you consider glass massagers? Glass massagers have the capacity to change temperature. Temperature play involves warming or cooling the plug to add extra sensation to the massage, or one might just find certain temperatures more comfortable. The G01 and G09 plugs from Icicles Gold are the best in climax change.
Cock Ring Plugs
When building, someone must be working on the foundations before you can erect the pole. These cock ring plugs allow both jobs to be done simultaneously! Try out this Prostatic Play Explorer or Prostatic Play Rover to experience orgasms you haven’t even dreamed of yet.
Important things to remember
Take it slow. If insertion is either too uncomfortable or painful, there’s no need to force it! Put away your p-spot toy for the day and try again another time.
Good things take time. P-spot orgasms are unlikely to happen immediately. Don’t be disheartened if you don’t experience a p-spot orgasm during initial stages, keep faith and soldier on.
Lube! Be generous, it should be an aquatic centre down there when you’re first giving p-spot play a go.