Do not underestimate the power of oral sex. If you want to be the guy she talks to all her friends about. The guy who can goes down as a raunchy rogue and resurfaces as a cunnilingus champion. The guy woman want to play leapfrog with, because you're equally exciting and they enjoy having your head between their legs, even if it's just for a second. If this is you, if I have accurately described your wants for sexual improvement, then take a quick read...
Flat tongue technique
The clitoris is sensitive and doesn’t want a lizard like experience form the get go. Many guys focus on the clitoris, this is positive, but this requires a planned approach. Even though you may have discovered certain motions or areas that make her hips pulsate. Ever noticed that mimicking these immediately doesn’t produce similar reactions. The moaning, quivering and hair grabbing only occurs after awhile right?
Therefore, flat tonguing was devised to comfort the clitoris during that warm up phase. This involves making your tongue broad and putting pressure on her clitoris and licking very slowly. Potentially no licking may be required, discuss this with her. Pressure does not mean direct stimulation! Instead you are touching all the sensitive surfaces nearby that will give her clitoris an encouraging nudge.
It's not all about the clitoris
Stop skipping the vulva! Yes, focusing on the clitoris gives the most orgasmic sensations. However an amazing sexual experience is not just about orgasms. What's that old timeless classic, "it's not the destination, but the journey that matters." Apply this thinking, to performing oral sex and you'll change the game. It even makes a difference for her when receiving oral sex. If she can feel that you’re pleasuring all areas down there, her vagina, labia, vulva and clitoris. Focusing on the clitoris can make her feel pressured to have an orgasm, which is counter productive because she’d rather just be losing herself in the moment.
Now that you’ve been free'd from the misconception that there's other areas to satisfy. Try tongue thrusting or licking the vaginal canal. This move is actually quite rare so it might surprise her a little bit. This definitely isn't a move you should incorporate during early stages and takes a decent period of other stimulation, I was gonna say priming but it feels weird to describe oral sex with the same word that describes starting a lawnmower. Your thrusting should mimic penetration, obviously you're not going to achieve the depth that your fella does. But this is not the point, the goal is to provide new sensations on the journey towards an orgasm. The more buildup the stronger her orgasm will be.
A sex position you would have used plenty of times. Yet, you've never thought about giving her oral in this position? There’s an often unspoken reason some couples may not perform in this position and that’s because the anus is more exposed. Couples who enjoy anal sex are usually more likely to have imagined this act. There have been many trends in recent years to do with sexual activity, one of them being analingus, more commonly known on social media as "eating ass." If you’ve taken a liking to this trend then this position is great as you can differentiate between the vagina or anus easily.
Although remember that bacteria can be transmitted through oral sex. Bacteria in the anus is nasty and can wreak havoc if being placed in other areas. To ensure sexual health, be sure to practice proper anal hygiene. Also, always discuss whether both partners are okay with analingus, it won't go down well if you don't check!
No matter how amazing you are at using your lips or tongue during sexual intercourse, everyone has their limits. If you've been down on a girl for sometime you probably know what it feels like when your tongue starts to fatigue. But you push through the pain because she gives an incredible blow job and sex is a two way street.
If things begin to become a little bit mediocre due to a muscular meltdown. Sub in an oral sex toy. Slip on this Vibrating Tongue Teaser and bring her to orgasm over and over again. Remember sex is about the journey and one brilliant thing about oral sex toys is that you don’t actually need to have your face between her legs. Instead, have her hold this Sqweel 2 Oral Sex Stimulator while you can embrace the rest of the body. The one negative about oral sex is that sometimes partners can feel a level of disconnect, considering their partner is between their legs instead of cuddling face to face. Sometimes they may simply not want oral and will just prefer you to be up close and intimate. If a sex toy can do the licking, then you can do the kissing!
Remember that safe sex is always a priority. Without being rude, always drop the question in about their sexual history. This is absolutely worth it as you don't want to have to deal with any sexually transmitted infection (STI's), such as herpes gonorrhoea or syphilis. Some infections such as HPV can lead to cervical cancer. Asking a quick question or using dental dams greatly lowers the risk of transmission.
When oral sex is on the menu, genital health is not the only thing to consider. Both partners need to make sure their oral hygiene is okay. Oral cancers are about 50% more common in men.