Is it wrong for a straight male to use anal toys?

We often answer questions from customers here - and our latest is one that is surprisingly common and similar to other questions we've had.

Is it wrong for a straight male to use anal toys?

The short answer is: Absolutely not! Whether or not you like anal play has no impact on your gender or sexuality. People of all genders love anal sex and using anal toys, and people of all sexualities do too.

The reason why men love anal play is because the p-spot is an erogenous zone that is located between the bladder and the rectum in men. Like the g-spot in women, the prostate (p-spot) is full of nerve endings that are ready to be stimulated! Generally, about two knuckles into your anus is the p-spot. It feels similar to the G-spot on a woman. Soft, a bit squishy. It's about the size of a 5c piece.

It feels good whatever your sexuality is.

How to try anal play

Use your finger to find it. The point of using a finger is to familiarise yourself with what feels good so that once practicing with an anal toy, you can incorporate similar movements. Basically, what you want to do is provide pressure to different parts of your prostate gland to see what feels comfortable. If you suddenly feel encouraged to urinate or feel sensations that feel similar to the beginning of an orgasm, you’re touching your prostate. Don't worry that feeling is completely normal.

You can achieve orgasm through stimulating the prostate with your fingers, a penis, or sex toys. But it's a totally different orgasm. P-spot orgasms allow you to reach orgasm without touching your penis.

What are the best anal toys?

Here at Adulttoymegastore, we have every type of toy you could imagine. And plenty of toys to try for anal play.

Anal Beads

Anal beads are great toys for beginner’s anal play, as they start quite small meaning, they are easier to insert and allow you to work your way up. They are also incredibly versatile, which makes them an awesome toy to add to your collection!

Anal stimulation can feel great for anyone! If you’re uncertain about putting anything in your rear end, then anal beads might look daunting. But they are very user friendly! As long as you start out with something small and manageable, you will uncover the pleasure of anal very quickly. And while everyone’s different, it’s always worth giving it a go anyway, right?! These three bead Silicone Anal Beads provide anal pleasure for all! With a tapered tip, curved design, and graduating in size, these anal beads are great for beginner to the wonders of anal action and are especially great at massaging P-Spot.

Made from smooth silicone, and featuring a handle for easy retrieval, these anal beads make discovering backdoor stimulation easier.

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Let your pleasure linger with this extra-long set of silky anal beads. The velvet soft, graduated design slips in effortlessly, and is nearly a foot long for added stimulation. The premium silicone is smooth durable and cleans easily. The easy retrieval cord is topped by a handy loop for quick removal.

Linger Graduated Silicone Anal Beads$42.95Shop Now

Butt Plugs

Butt plugs are a heap of fun. What is a Butt Plug? While the name is pretty self-explanatory (butt plugs plug up your butt!), butt plugs are anal toys with a tapered bulb shape to insert into the anus for backdoor pleasure. Butt plugs, also known as anal plugs and ass plugs, come in small, medium and large sizes, which should be selected depending on your level of experience.

At just 1 inch wide with an insertable length of 3 inches, this Mini Silicone Plug has a tapered tip for easy entry, a bulb that provides extra sensation, and a narrow neck that allows your muscles to wrap around and hold it in. The ergonomic design of the base ensures it won't slip too far inside while still fitting comfortably between your cheeks. Our ultra-hygienic Elite Silicone is phthalate-free, hypoallergenic, and can be worn all day for long-lasting fun.

Anal Fantasy Collection Mini Silicone Plug$21.95Shop Now

The Snug Plug 2 is an ultra-comfortable, 114-gram weighted butt plug that is designed to provide a sensual feeling of fullness. Wear during partner sex or enjoy discreetly for extended wear stimulation. Snug Plugs are made of body-safe, seamless silicone and feature a think, flexible neck and smooth grip handle.

B-vibe Snug Plug 2$85.95Shop Now

Prostate Anal Toys

As well as the anal classics above there are also toys shaped specifically with the prostate in mind. Prostate anal toys usually have a curved or bulbous tip at one end which is designed for direct pressure on the prostate. Some can be inserted and stay in place hands-free, while others are handheld and can be moved around to stimulate the area.

The Anal Fantasy Vibrating Butt Plug is a small plug with a perfectly curved tip for stimulation. And this one even vibrates for even more pleasure. Just pop it in and let it work its magic.

Anal Fantasy Collection Vibrating Perfect Butt Plug$40.95Shop Now

The Amore Velocita P-spot Massager is a handheld toy that is perfect for beginners to anal play. This toy is long and thin and can be slowly inserted and moved slightly back and forth or in small circles to stimulate the prostate. And it has gentle vibrating too for even more fun while you play.

Amore Velocita P-spot Vibrator$21.95Shop Now

Anal Training Kits

For those that are new to anal toys, starting at the right size is incredibly important. Using a toy that is too big can seriously hurt and even damage the delicate tissue inside your booty. So, start small and only go bigger when your body is ready. If you want to explore larger sizes, I recommend an anal training kit. These are sets of multiple plugs that gradually increase in size to ensure you move up sizes safely without putting too much pressure on your sphincter muscles.

Betty Anal Trainer Set$39.95Shop Now

Lubricant

Lubricant is absolutely vital! Uberlube silicone lubricant has been designed so that it helps to enhance the experience of sex not just allow you to stay wet for longer. Instead of just being slippery, the uberlube formula helps to transfer sensation while reducing friction helping couples feel closer and free from barriers.

JO Anal H2O is the same JO H2O you love in an extra thick high viscosity formula. Made with the finest pharmaceutical grade ingredients available, this anal lube delivers pure sensual glide with no numbing agents.

System Jo Anal H2o Lubricant 120 Ml$19.95Shop Now

Check out our full range of Anal Sex Toys.

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