What is a Fleshlight? How they work and buyer's guide for the masturbator sex toys
*This article was published in 2020 and was updated in 2024 for comprehensiveness and accuracy.
If you’re into sex toys, you’ve likely heard the term Fleshlight popping up. It’s an incredibly popular range of sex toys that specialises in masturbation toys and has fans all over the world.
The Fleshlight was designed by Steve Shubin, who was granted a patent in July 1998 for his invention. It first started as a "device for discreet sperm collection". It didn’t take long to realise that this device was ideal for people looking for a pleasurable time too, so they moved into the sex toy market instead.
The term “Fleshlight” has become synonymous with male masturbators due to their popularity, however they are just one of many brands that specialises in this type of toy. The category itself is called male masturbators, penis masturbators, strokers or pocket pussies.
What is a Fleshlight?
Put in the simplest terms, the Fleshlight is a brand of artificial vulva, mouth or anus sex toy. It's a masturbator that you insert your penis inside for pleasure. Then you can move it up and down the shaft for a feeling similar to penetrative sex. The material is made from a patented formula called Superskin that’s designed to be as smooth and supple as real skin.
I’ve felt it, and let me tell you, it’s pretty damn close.
The sleeves come in a range of textures, patterns and pressure from the tight and extremely textured, to the wider and softly rippling. No matter what type of stimulation you are into, there will be a Fleshlight to suit you.
Fleshlights are named Fleshlights because they look like flashlights to the unassuming eye. Although they are relatively big, the idea is that they don’t look like sex toys so can left in your bedroom without any worries.
Check out this video by Certified Sex Educator Emma Hewitt to learn more about Fleshlights.
Different types of Fleshlights
Fleshlights come in an array of styles and shapes. Here’s the most popular Fleshlight ranges we stock.
Fleshlight Pink Lady
The original, and still one of our best-sellers, the Fleshlight Pink Lady is a classic Fleshlight with a pink vulva orifice and a smooth canal for penetration. The OG pink lady is designed for larger penises with a wider canal. If you are looking for more texture, there’s the Pink Lady Vortex which features a highly textured sleeve for added stimulation and suction on the penis.
“The fleshlight was much more realistic than I expected. Definitely felt like a quality product.” – Verified Purchaser
Fleshlight Pink Lady Vortex$99.95Shop Now
Fleshlight Pink Lady$114.95Shop Now
Fleshlight Stamina Unit (Fleshlight STU)
For those looking for something tight (and I mean seriously tight), The Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit is the one for you. This masturbator is designed to help you last longer with a partner by being very tight with lots of stimulating nubs. The idea is that the more you use it, the more you will become accustomed to intense stimulation helping you to have longer play sessions with a partner.
Regardless of whether you use it to train or simply for fun, the Fleshlight STU is one of the best Fleshlights according to reviews.
“I’ve had three of these over the years and they always deliver great times. I have much more intense orgasms when I use it, and after a few uses you learn how to edge with it and really amplify the pleasure.” – Verified Purchaser
Pink Lady Stamina Training Unit$119.95Shop Now
Fleshlight Girls
Fleshlight were the first in the game to make sex toys molded off the bodies of porn stars and they are adding more toys to their range all the time. So, if you have a favourite you like to watch, there might be a Fleshlight Girls to go with it.
Most girls have a signature sleeve with a texture specific to them as well as a vulva shaped just like theirs. Some will even have a model based on their butts or mouths too.
“It feels great, wonderful look and texture. Great quality and very easy to clean. I would highly recommend it. It is definitely worth the price.” – Verified Purchaser
Fleshlight Girls Eva Lovia Sugar Signature Vagina$127.95Shop Now
Fleshlight Girls Janice Griffith 'eden' Signature Sleeve$127.95Shop Now
Fleshjack Boys
The Fleshjack Boys range is a collection of amazing masturbators molded off the bodies of your favourite male porn stars. With cute butts and highly textured sleeves, this range is perfect for those looking for an amazing anal masturbator.
“Loved it. Soft, plump and the inside sleeve felt amazing.” – Verified Purchaser
Fleshjack Boys Milan Christopher King Butt$119.95Shop Now
Fleshjack Boys Cody Cummings Untouched Signature Butt$127.95Shop Now
Fleshlight Quickshot
The Quickshot range is the perfect alternative for those who find cleaning up after the fact a real nuisance. The Fleshlight Quickshot has an open-ended design meaning that you can ejaculate through the toy which makes cleaning-up a lot easier.
It’s also a great addition to oral sex when it’s used at the base of the shaft along with a mouth over the top to stimulate the head of the penis. The Quickshot is also smaller, lighter and easier to use.
Fleshlight Quickshot Stamina Training Unit$59.95Shop Now
Fleshlight Accessories
Fleshlight doesn’t just stop with toys, they have plenty of accessories to go with their masturbators to make your playtime even more exciting. From the super-popular sleeve warmer which warms your masturbator before play, to water-based lubricant, toy cleaner, a drying rack and a Fleshlight penis pump to get you hard and ready for action.
Fleshlight - Fleshwash$24.95Shop Now
Fleshlube Water - 100ml$24.95Shop Now
Fleshpump Rechargeable Penis Pump $149.95Shop Now
But my favourite accessory is the Fleshlight Phone Strap which is designed to secure your smartphone or mini tablet to your leg to provide easy viewing whilst your hands are busy with your Fleshlight. The neoprene strap warps around the thigh just above the knee for an easy viewing experience.
The Phone Strap, your favourite pornstar and their matching Fleshlight? Sounds like a great way to spend an evening.
Fleshlight Phone Strap$32.95Shop Now
How to use a Fleshlight
Using a Fleshlight is super easy but there are a few steps you need to follow to keep your toy (and your penis) in tip-top shape. The first thing to do, is ensure you have a whole lot of lube on hand. Fleshlights are designed to be tight, so you need to add lube to prevent friction, reduce the risk of damaging the toy and to make everything feel way better.
Stick to water-based lubricant with all Fleshlight products. Silicone and oil-based lubes can interact with the material in negative ways causing damage to the delicate material. Apply lubricant to your penis and inside the sleeve then grab the Fleshlight with two hands and slide it down the shaft of your penis. The whole in the sleeve might look small, but with some lubricant, it becomes super stretchy and accommodating.
From here, you can move the toy up and down, thrust into it or bring in a partner to help. You can open the small cap at the end of the toy if you want to allow more airflow through and reduce the feeling of suction. Or keep it on if you want as tight a fit as possible.
How do I clean a Fleshlight?
Cleaning up is the part that usually turns people off a Fleshlight but it’s really not that hard.
Once you are done, remove the small cap at the end to allow air to flow and remove the sleeve from the plastic casing. You can wash the plastic case with some soapy water to remove any lube from your hands.
Then pop your sleeve under a running tap with warm water. Don’t go too hot as this can melt the toy. Use some sex toy cleaner down the center of the sleeve and lightly move the sides of the sleeve up and down with your hands on either side to give the inside a light scrub. Then give it a good rinse again to remove any toy cleaner.
Once it’s cleared out, leave the sleeve and case on a towel to dry completely. Never put your Fleshlight away wet as it can cause bacteria and mould (yes mould) to build up inside the toy. Once it’s dry, the sleeve will feel a little tacky on the surface, this is normal, but you can use some refreshing powder or corn starch to return it to its original silky-smooth state.
Should I get a Fleshlight
That’s entirely up to you! Fleshlights are amazing toys, and the patented material really is one of the most life-like toy materials on the market. However, the clean-up required to look after it can make it unappealing for some.
If you think that will be a problem for you, an open sleeve stroker may be a better option. Here’s a few styles to look at that are a bit more straight forward to clean.
Screaming O Jackits Stroker Pad$14.95Shop Now
Rocks Off Rush Vibrating Stroker$53.95Shop Now
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