This product comes in 2 sizes, we found this larger one a bit too long for me and my partner despite it being smaller than either of us, you might be able to work up to it over time, its not actually that big, but it just feels big, maybe because its thin but long. The fact it angles is very handy and it has great battery life, its smooth so you can slide it in and out without friction or pain from ridges, the pivot point (ball) is great because it ensures it stays in more easily compared to something that is just straight, Good if your ok with some length.