I bought this for my partner basically as baby's first plug since I'd been doing anal for a while and he was interested. It's definitely a good size for a starter and the tail portion adds a fun element to play, especially when gently tugging on it. Because the taper of it isn't so extreme, it can start falling out after getting relaxed, so I would definitely recommend it more as a fore play toy rather than than a finisher, but otherwise its easy, cleans well, and is fun for playing. Definitely recommend