I think this toy is gorgeous I love it, my boyfriend loves it, it's a joy all around. It is definitely a toy for playing with/admiring on the body - you can't really wear it while moving around because of the large handle. It's not super comfortable to use during penetrative sex because it feels a bit uncomfortable between the butt cheeks after a while, and depending on your position (if you're doing P in V) can smack the top's balls. If the plug is the center of attention, though, it is perfect - the large handle makes it great to play with, and it looks great if your holes are just being looked at. I love the feeling of glass, and it being super easy to clean is definitely a bonus!