6 sex resolutions for a hot and horny 2024
It’s resolution time and this year, let’s not forget how important our sex lives are too. Whether you are single or have a partner (or partners), there are some easy ways to keep things fresh, fun and boost that libido!
1. Learn to talk about sex
The better we can communicate about it, the better our sex lives will be! Good communication skills will help you feel more confident asking for what you want in the bedroom, telling others what you are into, and asking partners what they like too.
It’s so important at the beginning of a relationship but also throughout long-term relationships too. Things change and sometimes things we used to enjoy don’t feel so good anymore. And being able to talk about it openly means that there won’t be any awkwardness or confusion between you and your partner.
I know it’s hard but the more you practice talking about sex, the easier it will become.
2. Masturbate more
Masturbation is fun, it’s healthy (yes, even if you are in a relationship) and it’s good for you. It lowers stress levels to help you relax, it helps you sleep better, it’s good for your pelvic floor when you orgasm, and it helps to boost your libido. Yup, there’s truth to the saying the more sex you have, the more sex you want. Positive sexual experiences make your brain crave more of them.
Plus, learning about your body, how it works and what feels good to you is always a good thing. It means you can have better self-pleasure but better sex with others too as you can tell them exactly what you like and guide them to the spots that feel good for you.
The more you understand your own body, the more you can tell when something is wrong too. That means you can better advocate for yourself in the bedroom but also with doctors and healthcare professionals too.
3. Make your life more erotic!
Find simple ways to make your life more pleasurable by utilizing all of your senses. Take the time to slow down and find pleasure in your food, looking at a beautiful view or smelling the flowers. How does it make your body feel? What about reading an erotic romance? Or listening to audio erotica on your bus ride or walk? It’s a great way to boost your libido and add some sexiness to your day!
4. Mix things up
Sexual novelty and keeping things fresh are some of the best things you can do for your sex life! It could be as simple as trying a new sex position, having sex somewhere other than the bedroom, like the kitchen or a hotel or trying a new sex toy.
Even a simple change can make a big difference and help you to feel excited about experiencing pleasure solo or with someone else.
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5. Make a sex bucket list
Creating your own sex bucket list is a great way to think about what you are into and take the time to make it happen. It can also be a fun conversation starter with your partner to get some new ideas rolling. Maybe there is something on both of your lists you haven’t considered before.
If you need some inspo, check out our podcast the Electric Rodeo. This season Tash and I are trying to complete our own sex bucket lists. It’s not always easy, but it sure is fun!
6. Use lubricant
I can’t sing the praises of lubricant enough. It’s designed to keep things smooth, sensual and pleasurable by removing friction and enhancing sensation. A water-based lubricant is a great starting point as it’s safe to use with bodies, condoms and all sex toy materials.
If you want something that feels a bit more luxurious, go for a silicone lubricant that will be thicker, longer lasting and feel even more incredible.
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Basically, don’t settle for mediocre… sex, partners, or orgasms!
We all have on days and off days but if you are finding your sex life is consistently mediocre, it’s time to make some changes. We all deserve pleasure in our lives, so why not make pleasure a priority for your 2024?!
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The information in this article has been fact-checked and reviewed for accuracy by Adulttoymegastore’s team of content specialists and sexual wellness experts, including Sex Educator Emma Hewitt.
