Edging refers to delaying orgasm. Where one is stimulated closely to the point of orgasm, yet are not breaching the point of no return. Dancing on the "edge" of satisfaction as it goes. Stimulation will then be decreased or completely stopped so that more stimulation can happen without the receiving partner reaching orgasm. You know when you're boiling pasta and the bubbles start rising and if you don't either lower the heat or take the lid off, they're going to go all over the stovetop. It's the same sort of thing. I hope you remember this every time you're preparing some pasta, get some lust in that linguine!
Innovations in sex toys no longer means you need to be physically close to take part in edging. Long-distance sex toys have enabled couples to take orgasm control global. This has been especially reconnecting for long-distance relationships who still want to enjoy the intimacy and attention that edging requires.
However, it's not just about using sex toys to build things up. Communication is vital, especially in long distance relationships. That's one of the really positive things about long distance, you are forced to communicate and perhaps have conversations that you wouldn't have had if you could just jump into bed and achieve intimacy that way. Sex isn't always a reflection of an intimate relationship! I know you long distance people are definitely thinking you'd rather be able to just jump into bed. Just trying to put a positive spin on things!
Spice up your texting game with some sexy messages or photos. Self-pleasure during your daily/weekly video calls and get some toys involved so you can watch each other in real time.
Real time is really useful here as you can let your partner know whether they'd like the toy to slow down, speed up or stop immediately so you can play on the edge. This might take a few attempts to get use to as you get use to the intensity or functions of the toy.
If you're into it, you can even send each other raunchy requests, with evidence if you so desire! Just like sex, having an orgasm doesn't necessarily mean satisfaction, so use all means necessary to build anticipation.
Here's a few toys that are perfect for edging from afar
The Sync is a couple's vibrators that can be used when together or apart. Being C-shaped, one arm sits internally for g-spot stimulation and the other sits externally for clitoral stimulation. The We-Connect app means that couples can play together as long as they both have Wi-fi and Bluetooth connection. It even has a Beat Mode that will vibrate in response to music, giving an entirely new meaning to "put on your favourite song." When you finally get to see each other in person to experience the main reason this couple’s toy is so popular. It can be worn during penetration. Shared orgasms ahoy!
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You've talked about your days, struggles, worries and dreams. Finally, the video call swings around to that sensual end. A bit of dirty talk, a bit of self-love and few raunchy requests. Edging with this Fleshlight Launchpad is easy. Let one partner put on a show as the other build ups towards a pleasurable crescendo. Taking request of whether they should slow down or speed up. Alternatively, the Launchpad is great if you have any private photos or videos of each other. Remember the masturbator is sold separately.
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Ambi is a super discreet app-controlled bullet vibe. With a design made for pinpoint or broad stimulation, switch between the two when wanting to edge. The pocket or purse worthy size of this toy lets you edge on the go. Whisk away on your work break for some erogenous relief. Because it's app operated, the partner controlling the vibe will only look like they're checking their emails. With 10 vibration patterns to explore, take your time discovering all the different ways you can bring your partner to the brink.
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To make things a bit more comfortable, consider using some water-based lubricant with your toy!
Keep your sex life body safe! Thoroughly discuss the use of a sex toy before introducing it into the bedroom. Each partner should know exactly how the toy functions and what it is used for. This will not only make the toy more beneficial but will make the overall experience a lot more intimate!
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